I have been trying not to care about things like this so much, but of course it still bothers me.

On a completely different note, I had a conversation last night with a friend, and congrats to him because he is in love.

In Love Actually, Liam Neeson asks his faux son, “Aren’t you too young to be in love?” and the son looks at him with serious innocence, furrows his brow, and says “no!”

Is there a way to love and not get lost? It is the worst distraction that I can think of. Besides the loss after love. Love is a curse, an ideology, an empty idea that only exists because of belief– sort of like religion. And I don’t even want to get into religion.

Loving graciously is so difficult, because you have to be conscious of how you appreciate someone in the most unappreciative of times. And even then, does loving graciously benefit you or the one you love more?

Is the best thing to love yourself? To protect yourself?

So what does OSHO have to say about this?

Gracie